Episode 314 - The Dr. Cloud Show Live - Self and Other: Object Relationship - 1-12-2022

On this episode of The Dr. Cloud Show:   A listener wrote: Is it good to remain friends after a breakup? Are there guidelines that may help? Does proper healing mean total separation from your ex?   A listener wrote: What advice do you have to help me act like an ex-wife while I'm still living with my ex-husband? I'm unemployed and can't afford to move.   Kay's daughter is awaiting disability payments. She doesn't want to give her daughter any money that might enable further bad choices. How can she share her concerns with her daughter?   Jenny called back to get more advice on how to get her goals accomplished.   Abby is dating a great guy, and thinks things are going great, but whenever they're apart she gets anxious. Is this all on her, or is there a lack of communication causing her insecurity?   A listener wrote: My husband says all the right things, he loves me, and thinks I'm a great wife, but he doesn't make time for our relationship. He's always golfing, watching football, and working. When we're on a date, he'll watch football on his phone. I'm in a lonely marriage and wish his actions were as strong as his words.    Are you having difficulty with trusting someone you're close to? Maybe you're trying to rebuild trust but you get set back by reliving what happened. Is this person worthy of giving your trust to in the first place? We have a two hour live workshop coming up on Trust! It's on February 21st. If you can't attend live, don't worry! All purchases include access to stream the recording afterward anytime as often as you like. https://www.boundaries.me/trust Get a free 14 day trial to Boundaries.me with over 90 video courses, daily coaching emails and more. We've got courses on codependency, finding safe people, dealing with a narcissist, and over 90 other courses. You'll also get daily coaching videos delivered to your inbox--short 2-4 minute videos that give you one thing to do that day to build your way to a better version of yourself. We've also got a members-only support community on the site where you can discuss what you're learning, and get support and share support along the way. It's a free two-week trial, cancel at anytime, and only $9 a month after that. https://www.boundaries.me