Why We Shouldn’t Say “You Hurt My Feelings” to Our Kids

I recently made a post on Instagram where I told parents they should not say to their kids “You hurt my feelings” whenever they say something mean or unkind. This post garnered a lot of comments so I thought I would unpack it further in today’s episode. The parent-child relationship differs from our other relationships, we have to give our kids space to have big feelings and say things without shaming them and making it about us and how we feel.Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a friend or leave a rating and a review.Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through some icky places in my own past. If you want to try, download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling. Are you a coach, or an online course creator? Have an email list you communicate with often? Do you have a website? Kajabi can be your home for all of these and so much more click here and explore all Kajabi has to offer while supporting the Peace and Parenting Podcast at no extra cost to you. Follow Peace and Parenting:YouTube: Peace and ParentingInstagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaLinkedIn: @Michelle Kenney M.EdPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupApple PodcastsSpotifyAmazon MusicWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Birdwatching enthusiasts check out Feathersnap: https://www.feathersnapcam.com/* Check out BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/PEACE* Check out ByHeart.com/podcast and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.byheart.com/podcast* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out Knorr to bring more peace to your meal prep: https://www.knorr.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.com* Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy