Is Punishment Revenge

Yep, I said it, and I believe it. Punishment is revenge in a very real way. We don’t punish children for any other reason except we want them to “pay” for what they did. It’s not our fault, as our parents did the same thing. If we look at our own childhood we can remember what it felt like and how punitive and unkind it came across. Is this what we want for our kids?    My gift to you this holiday season is 20% off all my on-demand programs plus my monthly membership. This includes How to Stop Yelling, Siblings, Not Rivals, Understanding Big Emotions, and A Guide to Cooperation. To learn more about these programs click here and use code PEACE20 to get the discount. Hurry, deal ends at midnight on Saturday December 3rd.   Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a friend or leave a rating and a review.   Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through some icky places in my own past. If you want to try, download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling.    Are you a coach, or an online course creator? Have an email list you communicate with often? Do you have a website? Kajabi can be your home for all of these and so much more click here and explore all Kajabi has to offer while supporting the Peace and Parenting Podcast at no extra cost to you.    Follow Peace and Parenting: YouTube: Peace and Parenting Instagram: @peaceandparenting Facebook: @peaceandparentingla LinkedIn: @Michelle Kenney M.Ed Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Apple Podcasts Spotify Amazon Music Want to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cure Our Sponsors: * Birdwatching enthusiasts check out Feathersnap: https://www.feathersnapcam.com/ * Check out BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/PEACE * Check out ByHeart.com/podcast and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.byheart.com/podcast * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com * Check out Knorr to bring more peace to your meal prep: https://www.knorr.com * Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.com * Check out Lil Critters: www.lilcritters.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy